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01
Mark the departure clearly
Celebrate a chosen transition without minimizing the goodbye.
[Name], before you move to [City], we want to thank you for your time at [Organization]. I am [Speaker], and I will especially miss [Small Shared Ritual]. I suspect the rest of us will try to recreate it and discover that [Harmless Detail About Their Style] was doing more of the work than we realized.
Say it: Keep the joke affectionate and brief.
02
Name a tangible contribution
Make appreciation useful and believable.
At [Specific Work Moment], you [Helpful Action]. I remember [Concrete Detail], because it changed [Modest Outcome] for me. You also made [Recurring Team Practice] clearer by [Practical Contribution]. Those are the kinds of things a person can get used to having around, then finally notice when there is a goodbye to say. We noticed, and we are grateful.
Say it: Pause after the modest outcome.
03
Recognize the next choice
Offer confidence without predicting success or imposing continuity.
I admire that you have chosen [Approved Reason or Hope for the Move]. You bring [Specific Strength] and a real interest in [Personal Interest] with you. I hope [City] offers you people who are curious about both. We would love to hear what you discover, whenever you feel like telling us.
Say it: Address the departing person directly.
04
Say a clean goodbye
Offer a warm sendoff and one realistic point of connection.
To [Name]: thank you for [Contribution] and for [Human Quality]. We will miss you at [Shared Place], and I look forward to [Realistic Future Contact]. May the new city become familiar at your own pace. Safe travels, and all our affection.
Say it: Let 'we will miss you' be sincere rather than comic.
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